Parenting a Neurodivergent Child: A Transformative Journey

The speech pathologist handed out pens and paper and asked us to write down whatever she was about to read over the next five minutes. As she began, she flicked the lights on and off with one hand and tapped the wall with the other, creating a constant stream of distracting noise. Staying focused through all the distractions was challenging, but that was exactly the point of the exercise. After five minutes, she asked us what we had managed to write.

This happened during one of my first speech therapy sessions, where we were introduced to the Hannah Program. The particular exercise was a real eye-opener, it demonstrated just how challenging it can be for autistic people to focus and process information when there’s so much sensory input happening all at once.

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Have you ever taken a moment to think how much a neurodivergent child has changed your perspective?

For me, as the parent of a neurodivergent child, this journey has been absolutely transformative. My entire way of seeing the world has been turned completely changed, and in the best way possible. The little things I used to overlook now seen significant, and experiences I once dismissed now carry deeper meaning.

Is this shift good or bad? Honestly, it is absolutely positive. The more I learn, the more I grow. I’ve gained so much insight into love, patience, kindness and human connection—qualities I thought I understood, but now feel on a much deeper level. I’ve spent eight years as a teacher, working to understand people, their differences, their struggles, and their strengths. But nothing has taught me more than my experience as a parent.

Looking back, I truly believe that everything in life happens for a reason. Life can be uncertain, messy and overwhelming, but having a neurodivergent child in my life feels purposeful. There’s meaning behind the lessons I’m learning and the way my heart has opened up—not just to my own child, but to the wider world of neurodiversity. Maybe the purpose isn’t fully clear yet, and maybe the journey is still unfolding. But deep down, I know this experience has changing me in ways that will stay with me forever.

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